Have you ever met someone you immediately clicked with? Someone you’ve known a short while but feel like you’ve known for years — the kind where a 2-hour lunch turns into 4 because the conversation is just that good?

For me, that’s Vivian.

In just two years, she’s become one of my most trusted human copilots. The supportive face in the crowd at my speaking engagements. The one who gives me tough, honest feedback when I need it most. The friend who got me onto a Reformer Pilates machine and into some of the best food Amsterdam has to offer.

Vivian is a brilliant strategist, mother, partner, and can read a room…and people…in a way that helps you process how to react to keep yourself whole and safe.